Before I left for Ghana to join the Peace Corps I became disillusioned with living in America for some reason and all I wanted to do was get out and get away from the US for a while. There was no specific reason why I wanted to leave, and it may have been a combination of things. Working at a job I didn’t like, going out and basically doing the same thing every weekend and possibly getting tired of being around the same people/type of people all the time. I just became tired of my life in America and needed a change. I just wanted to get away.
After a month of being in Ghana I realized that running/getting away was not going to solve issues that I had and wanted desperately to come back home. I began to miss the job that I had, going out on the weekends and meeting up with friends and I began to miss the people that I wanted to take a break from.
I recently had a conversation with a person with somewhat of a similar background that I have had. She also immigrated to the United States at the age of 3 and has lived her life in the US since then. We shared our stories of how our parents ended up in the US and how they initially had to cope with living there. Our parents struggled, but from it seemed like both of our parents worked hard in America to get to the place that they are at now.
There are countries in the world today like the European Union that may be doing better than the US in the economic sense, but I am proud to have lived and be a citizen of the United States of America. I don’t know why I never realized it before, but I guess I had to be here in Ghana to realize this. When you ask a Ghanaian why they all want to go to America instead of some place in Europe most of their responses are that they feel that Americans are a lot more open to having people of different races and ethnic backgrounds in their country.
I may not always agree with the current US government policies and how it operates, but I am proud to be an American. I feel like that there is no other places in the world that would and could have afforded my family the opportunities that it has had.
Written on September 4, 2007.